5 Things To Do When You First Get Engaged
The moment you’ve been dreaming of has arrived, and now itβs time to turn that “Yes!” into the wedding of your dreams. If youβre a detail-obsessed, who thrives on organization and loves ticking off to-do lists, youβre in the right place. At Weddings Down Under, we share your passion for perfection and are here to make planning your big day a breeze.
Hereβs a step-by-step guide on what to do when you first get engaged, packed with actionable tips to help you start your wedding planning journey the right way.
Photography: John Benavente
What to Do After Getting Engaged!
1. Celebrate the Moment!
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Take a moment to soak in this exciting time. Whether itβs popping a bottle of champagne, calling your loved ones, or having a quiet celebration with your fiancΓ©, this is your chance to relish the magic. Snap a photo of the ring (hello, Instagram-worthy moment!) and document how it happened.
Pro Tip: Create a shared photo album with your fiancΓ© to keep all your engagement and wedding-related pictures in one place. Itβll make curating your wedding slideshow so much easier later.
While you’re celebrating, why not Meet the Team to get to know the Weddings Down Under a bit better? Weβre here to share the journey with you!
2. Set Your Wedding Vision
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Before diving into the logistics, sit down with your partner and dream about what you want your wedding to feel like. Is it an intimate garden ceremony, a grand ballroom affair, or a rustic celebration under the stars?
This is the perfect time to discuss:
- Your non-negotiables (e.g., venue type, guest list size).
- Your priorities (e.g., a dreamy dress, epic photography, or an unforgettable dance floor).
If the thought of bringing your vision to life feels overwhelming, our Partial Planner & Coordinator Service could be just what you need. We help detail-obsessed couples like you streamline the planning process while keeping all those personal touches intact. Learn more about this service here.
For even more insights, check out our full blog on 10 Tips to Get Prepared for Your Wedding Day in Australia
3. Create a Realistic Budget
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Budgeting isnβt the most glamorous task, but itβs one of the most important. Sit down together and outline what youβre willing to spend, and decide whoβs contributing. Knowing your budget will guide every decision you make, from choosing your venue to deciding on the catering style.
Not sure where to start? Our Day-Of Coordination Service ensures your hard-earned money is well spent by executing your wedding flawlessly. Think of us as your peace-of-mind team, so you can focus on celebrating instead of stressing. Check out our services here.
Must-Read: Still debating where to save and where to splurge on your wedding flowers? Donβt miss our blog, What You Can Expect to Your Wedding Flowers to Cost in Sydney, for expert budgeting tips.
4. Pick Your Date & Venue
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Once youβve sketched out your vision and budget, itβs time to nail down the essentials: your wedding date and venue. Venues often book out 12-18 months in advance, so itβs best to start early. Your venue choice will set the tone for everything else, including your dΓ©cor, style, and even attire.
Need help narrowing down your choices? Our team at Weddings Down Under has worked with venues across Sydney, Melbourne, and beyond. From vineyard estates to chic city spaces, we can recommend the perfect spot for your celebration. Our Wedding Day of Coordinator Melbourne service ensures your venue is styled to perfection, timelines run smoothly, and every detail is taken care of.
Pro Tip: Schedule venue tours during off-peak hours for more personalized attention.
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5. Assemble Your Dream Team
A wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime event, and having the right people by your side makes all the difference. Start building your team of professionals whoβll bring your vision to life. This includes:
- A wedding planner or coordinator (thatβs us!).
- Photographer and videographer.
- Caterer.
- Florist.
Hiring a Partial Wedding Planner is the ultimate way to ensure nothing is overlooked. With our detail-obsessed team, youβll have access to curated vendor recommendations, a custom wedding timeline, and expert guidance every step of the way.
Read Next: Curious about how a planner can elevate your day? Check out Why Every Melbourne Wedding Needs an On-the-Day Coordinator for real-life success stories.
Your Dream Team, Down Under
Your engagement marks the start of an incredible journey, and knowing exactly what to do after getting engaged can set the stage for a stress-free planning experience. By following these 5 Things To Do When You First Get Engaged, youβll be off to a strong start, ready to create the wedding of your dreams.
At Weddings Down Under, we understand couples value precision, organization, and a team that just gets it. Thatβs why our detail-obsessed coordinators are your perfect match. From creating a seamless timeline to ensuring every ribbon is tied perfectly, weβre here to make your wedding planning stress-free. Ready to get started? Contact us today to schedule a consultation or learn more about our tailored services.
Fun Fact: Many of our clients tell us their only regret was not hiring us sooner! From the first βYes!β to the final βI Do,β Weddings Down Under is here to make sure every detail is picture-perfect. Ready to chat? Book a consultation or explore our services to find the perfect fit for your wedding.
Hereβs to your best day everβplanned and coordinated perfectly.
With Love,
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